irresponsibility
I can't stand it when people are irresponsible. Today my sister brought the digicam to her friend's party, and ended up getting thrown into the pool with the digicam. I don't know why her friends couldn't have asked whether she had anything in her pockets before pushing her down, and I don't know why she can't be more responsible for the things in her possession. This is the third time her phone has to be replaced since she first got a phone in sec3. She had it stolen twice and now had it thrown into the pool. I'm not going to say its not her fault, because I think she was simply careless. And it's time for her to stop being such a brat and grow up. Time for everyone to stop pampering her and treating her as if she can do no wrong. My mum just yelled at me because I said that I had a lot of pictures in the camera, and my sister was being irresponsible, and why is she always the one. Then my mum said it was an accident, and it could have happened to me. But you see, the point is it didn't happen to me. It happened to her. It always happens to her. Now she's slamming her drawers and the cupboard door. When I told her not to slam it she rudely replied "As if you never slammed them before". I mean seriously. It's her fault and she still dares to be so rude and ill-mannered. I don't understand how she can be so nice and polite and shy to other people, but with her family she's obnoxious, rude and spoilt. Remember I said I had a public and private self? I don't know how she does this, but her public and private self are on the two extremes of the continuum. I can't stand it when she's in the wrong yet she's so rude and defensive, acting as if she's right and I shouldn't be scolding her. I think she needs a lot of disciplining. Sometimes I want to slap her and make her see that the world doesn't revolve around her. Some people think I'm selfish. They haven't lived with her yet. Selfish is a nice word.
She's been so spoilt from young, because she's younger than I am, so I always get the blame for anything that went wrong, no matter who was in the wrong. I guess this has bred the attitude that she can never be wrong, and anyone who blames her is wrong to do so. When we were young, anything that happened, I got the scolding, my grandparents and father used to pick on me all the time. The only person that was fair and stood up for me was my mother. I think I used to be quite well-behaved, all my sister had to do was look pitiful and she would be comforted and I would get the scolding. I remember once, when we were at East Coast Park, she rode her bicycle into a woman on a bicycle. It was her fault, but instead of apologising, she pretended to cry, and the woman comforted her instead. This is actually a story that gets a lot of laughs when I tell it, it's so funny and silly at the same time. But this is an example of her being manipulative. And it gets worse. I'm not being biased when I say I was well-behaved, I already had the scoldings that my sister deserved, why would I do anything to get more? From young, I've had to give in to her all the time. Had to help her with her homework, help her do this do that wash dishes clean the table put out the chopsticks... and she never helped. I'm so sick of her irresponsibility, I think it's high time she started to stop taking things for granted and grow up. Learn to take responsibility. She is rude and unresponsive a lot of times, but when she wants something done, she is so nice and sweet that sometimes you forget how badly she's treated you in the past. Especially when you're her sister, you become a sucker for this kind of things everytime. But she's my sister. I can't help it. It just sickens me to think that she will grow up to be a selfish, manipulative and irresponsible woman.
